Make a Medical Choice Yourself Today

Your medical choices are up to you to share with your family and health care professionals.

The history here is important.

In order for the states and health care facilities to comply with the Federal Patient Self-Determination Act (1992), forms have been designed to complete your Advance Directives. These forms are available online, at your library, at your doctor’s office, the hospital, or nursing home. Actually these forms can be found anywhere you would receive health care services. These written medical directive forms vary from state to state so be sure you are working with a form that is acceptable in your state.  If you have residences in more than one state, please consider completing the forms for each state you reside.

These forms can be intimidating and daunting when you or your loved one is experiencing a health crisis due to an accident, and injury, or an illness. It’s best to prepare in advance of any illness or health crisis that may occur for yourself or your lived one. Graceful Conversations provides an educational approach towards learning about your personal preferences and how you can prepare for medical services. This interactive and personalized program creates a Statement of Medical Preferences  that is designed for you and can be attached to any of the state advance directives forms.

Prepare your medical preferences during a time in your life when you can appreciate the gifts you have in life. Don’t wait to communicate, if you need medical services; be prepared in advance to share with your health care professionals what you want them to know about your health care wishes. You are important enough to get this done sooner than when it’s too late.

Contact Nancy True to find out how Graceful Conversations can help you to complete your Advance Care Planning.


An “Upgrade” for Advance Care Planning

Decisions for health careAdvance Care Planning is getting an upgrade. For years our healthcare system has  perpetuated the circumstances of crisis and trauma before asking a person (or their medical proxy) for their medical preferences and wishes. The Current focus of Advance Care Planning appears to be only on end of life decisions and the forms required instituting a person’s “directives”. Sometimes a person’s directives are not taken into account before a medical professional will begin treatment.  These actions can be confusing and difficult; especially when experiencing a health crisis. More

You are Still You

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When you have a cancer diagnosis, this is a particularly sensitive time to have such a conversation; because you are already in the midst of receiving health care services. You’ve had multiple health care professionals provide you with extensive amounts of information and a shortened amount of time in which to make your decisions. More

Patient Centered Health Care

Self-determination in Advance Directives

Every person has a story or an experience of their own or someone close to them that disturbs them about how medical care is provided today. This is becoming more intense as the conversations around ‘mandatory health care insurance” will be discussed around the country and in the US Supreme Court. More


A legal document has certain components that are recognized by various professionals and institutions in society for the benefit of communication and decision-making. These legal documents contain both information and signatures that are then recognized by professionals so people can take certain actions or not. Advance Directive forms fit into this category of legal documents. The difficulty appears when people are intimidated by the form and the legality of them so completing Advance Directives is not as easy as most health care professionals might want.

One form of Advance Directives that is accepted in most states is called The Five Wishes. This document, designed by Aging with Dignity in Florida offers a collection of Wishes that you can consider for yourself when you need health care services. It is best to complete the Five Wishes when you are calm, quiet, and have time to reflect on the statements that this document offers for you to consider.

After you have completed The Five Wishes, go over your decisions for health services with your family members, your doctor or a close friend that you would trust to follow your preferences when medical decisions need to be made and you may not be able to participate in the conversations.

If you want a more detailed, comprehensive, narrative documentation that covers more depth and understanding of you as a person before you become a patient, contact Nancy True of Unlimited Grace LLC and schedule a “Graceful Conversation” that will capture your uniqueness in a personalized written record of your medical preferences.

Quality Health Care

Quality Health Care is available every day during hospitalizations, in Long Term Care Facilities, and Hospice Care. Your health care professionals want to offer you their best care, every time, all the time. Their ability to care is unique at a time when so much seems to be changing or uncertain as to how we will be able to receive Health Care Services. A very important action that everyone needs to take as they consider health care services is to write their medical preferences down and share them with family and health care professionals. This, I believe will not change, even as we consider very significant changes in our health care system.

Prepare Your Advance Directives

Preparing your Advance Directives is your right to self-determine your medical preferences as to what you want and what you don’t want to receive when you need to consider medical treatments. Your right to record your medical wishes is one the best ways to ensure that you will be cared for properly and receive individualized treatment options concerning your medical needs. Don’t wait until you are in the hospital or the nursing home or entering hospice care to write down what you want your health care professionals, family members, and friends to know about you as a person before you become a patient. As A Clinical Chaplain serving in the health care system for over ten years, I’m here to say that I have met some of the most caring, compassionate, and dedicated professionals within our health care system. Please take the time to prepare your Advance Directives so you can be assured good quality health care.

Complete The Five Wishes for yourself or contact Unlimited Grace LLC and ask about the Graceful Conversations program to prepare a personalized narrative document that contains your personal preferences for medical treatments and health care.